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Here are some gems from my WW:
"we never really connected"
"I don't think I ever really loved you"
"OM makes me happy and feel good about myself"
"you make something that is so beautiful sound so ugly"
M-43
WW-42
T 20
M 16
DD10
DD8
EA: 1/10
Informal separation: 6/11/2010
Headed for D: 7/6/2010
In Recovery: 9/10/10
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Here are some more:
"You never act happy to see me when I come home" (Which led me to believe OW must jump up and down and cheer wildly when she sees him in comparison to the neglectful "Hi!" he got from me each day)
"I was not hiding anything, I was protecting" (in reference to why he destroyed our home computer, changed all passwords and took all phone bills and bank statements before he left). Semantics.
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Karma, honey, you are too priceless for words....... 
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I've got some good ones:
"I need to end it on my own terms!" - translation=never
"It felt dirty and disgusting." - describing SF with her own husband.
"I need to find myself." - so you look in the arms of another man?
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WW fogtalk: "I think he (the OM) is gay...becaused he said something in a mannerism way..I'm sure he is gay...yeap" That was during my interrogation (CIA style) 
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WW fogtalk: "I think he (the OM) is gay...becaused he said something in a mannerism way..I'm sure he is gay...yeap" That was during my interrogation (CIA style) hahahh wow dgtal! Never heard that one uttered before!  That's pretty slick. Made my day....and it goes to show you the lies Wayturds will tell!
Me: BW, 27
Him: WH, 29
DD 4
DS 1
Married 07/25/09
A began end of 08/2009 (possibly sooner)
D-Day: 3/31/10
2nd D-Day: 4/9/2010
3rd D-Day: 4/21/10
Plan B (shortlived as it was): 18/05/10
WH decides to work on marriage: 20/05/10
False Recovery, Back to Plan B: 13/08/10
Filed for D Feb 2011, D April 2012
Looking forward to the sunshine and rainbows life should hold for us all!
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Oh boy, I leave for work today and you all drown me. Don't worry, though, I'm writing as fast as I can...
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
I will not spend my life this way.
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That website is pretty cool, KR!
I'll have to come up with something original that we can attribute to Skatt.
We all know I probably won't have to dig too deep......
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I thought that since I'm not married and can't give much advice, I'd do something to at least amuse you all. It's nice to see that I'm succeeding. I started this as a side-project, but wow, such reception means I have to crank up what I send out. I thought I'd only get enough for one a day, but you all surprised me. But! That is a good thing!
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
I will not spend my life this way.
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Karma,
I absolutely LOVE what you're doing... don't feel pressured, I think whatever you can get out is great... I know I appreciate a little fun at the sitch. :-) Keep up the great work!
AnnaBelle Rose
Me: 29 WH:31 DS: 22mths M: almost 6 years, together 7 1/2
I am not a mistake. - ABR
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I intend to.
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
I will not spend my life this way.
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Karma, Loving the blog! It is humorous that these lines are used again and again. One that seems to get thrown around A LOT - especially by WW is "I Need Closure" i.e. I need departure sex  I know I've heard it around tons, though I haven't had it told to me, personally.
Me & DH: 28 Married 8/20/05 1DD, 9 mo. Just Lookin' and Learnin' HIYA!
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"I need closure"...ah, I know I've heard that one, not in my life or here but many places.
Closure = talking about how to take it further underground
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
I will not spend my life this way.
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Oh, and if you haven't noticed, I'm being creative with the numbers now. 20s, I think I'll use Japanese... 
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
I will not spend my life this way.
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"I think you would really like OW if you got to know her...if you did then me, OW, you and the kids could spend some time together on Christmas day"
I've just recently got to the point where I can laugh at this one.
This was about a year ago and FWH was so deep in fantasy land at the time.
Boy those were the days...now I'm back to being the best thing since sliced bread.
Me BW
Him FWH
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"I think you would really like OW if you got to know her...if you did then me, OW, you and the kids could spend some time together on Christmas day" WHAAAAA?!?!?! REALLY?!?!?!?!?  Somehow, that just tops most that I've seen.... Gods, to even think about that one....
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"I think you would really like OW if you got to know her...if you did then me, OW, you and the kids could spend some time together on Christmas day" I have to say that I have heard my fair share of wayward drivel -- either from Skatt or from others on this forum -- but I think this one really ranks up there. Truly impressive. Kudos to you for being able to laugh at it now. TB
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After my WW found out that I had exposed to OM's family, she told me this:
"you ruined the only thing that has made me happy in last 12 years."
-SOL
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Hi karmarose,
Just thought I would add a couple of my own.
"I don't accept that my adultery is the only factor in the breakdown of our marriage" (I am now filing for divorce after trying to save the marriage for 7 months.)
"It seems like you want to be friends with everyone except me" (When he found out that I was going to NY to visit his aunt after she had invited me. My response: "They haven't lied to my face, cheated on me or betrayed me"
I'm checking the blog out now, it's looking good.
Thanks
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On D-Day my WH, after telling me I hadn't loved him for a long time, said "Don't try to take the OW away from me too. I deserve this. I deserve to be happy and if you try to break us up you will, again, be taking love away from me."
Ai yi yi.
BW (me) - 57
XWH-54
2DSs- 16 and 17
Married 16 years
D-Day - 8/21/09
XWH moved out 10-9-09
Divorce Finalized 11-19-10
XWH moved 4 states away (on 11/22/10) to live with OW.
XWH married OW 1-15-11
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