Around page 68 (of the logged on page number size)or so last I saw. As I got more curious I kept checking and whoever it was, was methodically reading every page. For hours.

It must be the "cult" in us.

Chrisner is sneaky - he is "invisible"

chrisner, do you agree that the member was cb 04 something like that. I saw another one listed with initials RW...Know thay enemy!

Cowgirl was pretty close. Stupidly I did not write it down. Maybe cbm0402 ?????? Something like that.

Don't worry you noticed...more than I did. I am surprised it would be cow-something. My bet it would be a

Chrisner calls wildhorses 'cowgirl'

I replied to the message you sent me somewhere else, it has the name and some other stuff I noticed.

I'm confused - I've read many of the big threads here cover to cover - but don't know any of the participants (that I'm aware of)

Poor Hope is checking Who's Online all the time now.




I have too. At first I did not think a thing about it. Probably just a newbie lurker getting the nerve up to post. But as the hours went by and clearly every word was being read....it just seemed odd.

At least something to note. A lot of people have been found here. That must really suck to lose this place as a safe haven.

Hello everyone else looking at the "Viewing list of posts"

It's a total pain in the proverbial.

Voice of experience

What's really freaky is that the spiders actually "read" posts and add it to their searchable database.

The WSes definitely read here. Over on the TOW forum, there is a thread that talks about this website (not by name) and the thread about how WSes affair down (they think that idea is ridiculous) and how awful that someone could compare being a BS as being worse than the death of a child. They thought that idea was horrid.

It does not surprise me that WSes read here. Hey, my H's OW, if you are reading, here's hoping everyone still ostrasizes you at work. Poor baby.

AM

AM

Dear lurker (or troll or whatever),

If you came to this site to recover the devastation caused by adultery in your M. Welcome you will find a great community here. Read everything and listen to the vets here.

If (as I suspect) you are someone else or something slimey (hhhmmmm PP)- the equivalent of something I might find stuck to the bottom of my shoe; I pray that maybe by reading some of our family legacy in the 200 pages, maybe just maybe; you will get an inkling of how your ignorance, selfishness and entitlement destroyed a great family.


If it is YOU that might be lurking -- don't concentrate on just reading mine, check out the other threads.

Educate yourself on the realization that your affair is just so common and ordinary and not really special as your dilluted deluded minds to believe. Do you feel embarrassed at all, maybe even a little humilated?

Understand this -- We, a loving littlle family, are doing well.

We were knocked down and hurt, we struggled but we are so much more than you will ever know.

There is 2 darling daughters that any parent would be proud of. They are loving, caring, and have good hearts.

If you are lurking think of how you both settled for so much less than you both deserved.

If you are marrying a man who cheated on his wife, you are marrying a man who cheats on his wife.

If you are marrying someone who cheated with you; they will cheat on you.

We still chose to remember the hero who lived in our home.

Point fingers, play the blame game, but look at that reflection in the mirror. Who is looking back at you?

That porch light is on. It burns brightly still.

P.S. The thread is gone. The drama is over. Go back to your "happy" lives.

I would say that's a propos...diluted, deluded, not much difference!

Just want to say that I read your thread (and others)regularly, but only to catch up when I see it at the top. I rarely post anymore.

I am anonymous. But I don't go thru your whole thread.

sometimes I do read back to get history, hope I don't fit the bill.

Best of luck and God Bless Hope. Sorry for this trouble.

Love in Christ,
Miss M

Hi Miss M, how sweet. No there are many times I don't log in either just a quick check.

This was someone who methodically was reading my pages from the beginning.

Some MBers were nice enough to shoot me a red flag about it.

Thank you. Blessings

Did I mention he drinks?

All I have to say is if everything is so WONDERFUL in affairland...What the H@LL are they doing reading over here on a marriage builder forum...spying....why would they even care what we are going through.

Whatsamatter CHEATERS everything not so dandy for ya!!!!!!

No thanks, i'd pass on that... I have seen enough PIGS !!!!