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Willy,
Just curious as how it went the people you exposed to talk to your WW, if they did? Did she get angry? Chuck, WW is very angry with the fact that I have exposed. She is doing damage control and as far as I can tell, she isn't totally telling the truth to those that are talking to her.
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I have a question about exposing the evidence that I have to WW. She seems to be telling others that her affair is only a "friendship" and they didn't sleep together. The evidence suggests otherwise to me. How do I handle this????
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Have you asked her yourself about the whole A? As I asked earlier, is your evidence factual or just assumptions? I myself am not 100% sure on everything and I am still waiting to expose until I know 100%.
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SEND your evidence to ALL that you have exposed!
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Have you asked her yourself about the whole A? As I asked earlier, is your evidence factual or just assumptions? I myself am not 100% sure on everything and I am still waiting to expose until I know 100%. The strongest evidence is e-mail exchanges between her and the OM. There is a lot of info you can gather here on how to get the evidence. Read up, ask questions.
Last edited by Willy66; 08/12/10 03:03 PM.
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Willy, did you tell your exposure targets that you have evidence? My suggestion would be to send them a nice email asking for their advice and support. Tell them you understand that your WW is denying the affair but you would be happy to provide the evidence to anyone who needs it.
something like this:
"dear friend, thank you for your time on the phone yesterday. I am trying my best to save my marriage and would appreciate any advice you might have. Since you are a very influential part of our lives, I am hoping you will use your influence to persuade WW to end her affair and try to save this marriage.
I understand she is denying her affair, so I would be happy to provide evidence if you have any questions.
Thanks for supporting our marriage. Willy"
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Have you asked her yourself about the whole A? As I asked earlier, is your evidence factual or just assumptions? I myself am not 100% sure on everything and I am still waiting to expose until I know 100%. Hey Chuck, just so you know, it is a very bad idea to ASK an adulterer if they are having an affair. Adulterers lie so you will rarely get the truth. Asking them only serves to tip them off and they just go deeper. Can I suggest that you start up your own thread so posters can help you with your situation? Folks won't see you down here at the bottom of Willy's thread.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Willy,
Just curious how things are going? Hope all is well.
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