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Me 38 / H 39 (Haha he is older than me!)
Known 24yrs / Married 18yrs
1 DD 23yrs
Too many D Days to count (King of Trickle Truth)
We both have agreed to 100% Commitment to Make this work or die trying !
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference.
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Me 38 / H 39 (Haha he is older than me!)
Known 24yrs / Married 18yrs
1 DD 23yrs
Too many D Days to count (King of Trickle Truth)
We both have agreed to 100% Commitment to Make this work or die trying !
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference.
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Me 38 / H 39 (Haha he is older than me!)
Known 24yrs / Married 18yrs
1 DD 23yrs
Too many D Days to count (King of Trickle Truth)
We both have agreed to 100% Commitment to Make this work or die trying !
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference.
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![[Linked Image from assets.sbnation.com]](http://assets.sbnation.com/assets/2807/ccsab.jpg) Lurker, Not sure you like who you've become? Not the guy you wanted to be? The kind who pays cash for hotel rooms? Not the kind of guy who does this sort of thing to his wife behind her back? Having a hard time living with what you've been doing? Come clean. There's a way back. Stick around. Read...
Me: FWH, 50
My BW: Trust_Will_Come, 52, tall, beautiful & heart of gold
DD23, DS19
EA-then-PA Oct'08-Jan'09
Broke it off & confessed to BW (after OW's H found out) Jan.7 2009
Married 25 years & counting.
Grateful for forgiveness. Working to be a better husband.
"I wear the chain I forged in life... I made it link by link, and yard by yard" ~Jacob Marley's ghost, A Christmas Carol
"Do it again & you're out on your [bum]." ~My BW, Jan.7 2009
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Bumppity Bump Bump
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Look here, lurkers, do
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Reclaim the good in you!
Me & DH: 28 Married 8/20/05 1DD, 9 mo. Just Lookin' and Learnin' HIYA!
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A Labor Day weekend bump for daaaaa... LURKERS !!!!![[Linked Image from bestsmileys.com]](http://bestsmileys.com/eyes/14.gif)
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Watch what is probably the most famous cinematic EMOTIONAL AFFAIR ... How does it end?
*LINK* <~~~~ CLICK THIS
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![[Linked Image from venusvision.com]](http://venusvision.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/sad-woman-in-bed-300x200.jpg) Lurker, Getting tired of the sneaking around? Running out of alibis to give your husband? Tired of not knowing how this'll end for your children, and scared of those moments & hours when you don't even care? Hating how, afterwards, it doesn't feel completely right? Tired of looking at that woman in your mirror and wondering who she's become, and of not being sure you even like her anymore? You can change your marriage. You can make it better than it was. This other guy is not the answer for you. I think that, deep down, you know that, don't you? Then 'fess up. And read up.
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Bumppity Bump Bump
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Reclaim the good in you! T/J (sorry) Frosty the Snowman?
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FWH-GreenMile-62
Married 1982
2 wonderful grown sons
D Day #1 4/1985
D Day #2 10/03/08
D Days continued for a while.
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T/J (sorry) Frosty the Snowman? hehe - yup- what can I say, I was bored and I love Christmas time  oh and BUMP
Me & DH: 28 Married 8/20/05 1DD, 9 mo. Just Lookin' and Learnin' HIYA!
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lurk |lərk|
verb [ intrans. ]
(of a person or animal) be or remain hidden so as to wait in ambush for someone or something : a ruthless killer still lurked in the darkness.
� (of an unpleasant quality) be present in a latent or barely discernible state, although still presenting a threat : fear lurks beneath the surface | [as adj. ] ( lurking) he lives with a lurking fear of exposure as a fraud.
� [ intrans. ] read communications on an electronic network without making one's presence known.
ORIGIN Middle English : perhaps from lour + the frequentative suffix -k (as in talk).
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Married 23 yrs
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Me- 47
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Dday #1 - Oct. 8 2006
Too many other D-Days to remember
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Lurker, Not sure you like who you've become? Not the guy you wanted to be? The kind who pays cash for hotel rooms? Not the kind of guy who does this sort of thing to his wife behind her back? Having a hard time living with what you've been doing? Come clean. There's a way back. Stick around. Read... <bump>
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Lurker, Getting tired of the sneaking around? Running out of alibis to give your husband? Tired of not knowing how this'll end for your children, and scared of those moments & hours when you don't even care? Hating how, afterwards, it doesn't feel completely right? Tired of looking at that woman in your mirror and wondering who she's become, and of not being sure you even like her anymore? You can change your marriage. You can make it better than it was. This other guy is not the answer for you. I think that, deep down, you know that, don't you? Then 'fess up. And read up. <bump>
Me: FWH, 50
My BW: Trust_Will_Come, 52, tall, beautiful & heart of gold
DD23, DS19
EA-then-PA Oct'08-Jan'09
Broke it off & confessed to BW (after OW's H found out) Jan.7 2009
Married 25 years & counting.
Grateful for forgiveness. Working to be a better husband.
"I wear the chain I forged in life... I made it link by link, and yard by yard" ~Jacob Marley's ghost, A Christmas Carol
"Do it again & you're out on your [bum]." ~My BW, Jan.7 2009
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If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app! Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8. Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010 If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.
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![[Linked Image from 2.bp.blogspot.com]](http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_gA0B58-xoZM/SxG9bFC606I/AAAAAAAAALY/fdeuTAHa4Cg/s1600/shame.jpg) Hello LURKERS
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HAHAHA  That made me smile!!
Me:44 BS
H:45 FWS
Married 22 yrs
Together 27 yrs
3 children: 14, 12, 9
EA then PA: Oct '09 - Aug '10
DDay: 8/20/10
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Hey YOU lurker,
There has NEVER in my 5+ years here been a better time to start posting on these forums. Dr. Harley and the moderators have done a tremendous job making this forum, once again, a safe place to discuss Marriage Builders and helping people as opposed to a private chat forum and endless attacks (with the ensuing meta-discussions) by trolls, frauds and other individuals unfamiliar with the program and seemingly opposed to it's concepts and principles for whatever reason.
MB is a tough place. We will challenge betrayed and wayward spouses alike. We PROMISE not to sugarcoat our helpful advice. We WILL confront your thinking and maybe even your beliefs but for those that stick around and come out the other side...it is very much worth the endeavour.
The path to marital recovery is very narrow and we'll do are best to keep you on it.
Mr. Wondering
FBH(me)-51 FWW-49 (MrsWondering)
DD19 DS 22 Dday-2005-Recovered
"agree to disagree" = Used when one wants to reject the objective reality of the situation and hopefully replace it with their own.
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