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Re: Is OP always selfish? StrongerThanB4 #2436115 10/19/10 09:29 AM
Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 2,617 S stillhere8126 Member
stillhere8126 Member S Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 2,617	It is sad that there are those of us who respected and loved our spouses and would do anything to have them back....and others who think of their spouses as trash to be used when needed and tossed away when not. BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.

Re: Is OP always selfish? stillhere8126 #2436136 10/19/10 10:49 AM
Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas M MelodyLane Member
MelodyLane Member M Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas	The mask slipped..... "It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101

Re: Is OP always selfish? MelodyLane #2436139 10/19/10 11:03 AM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 2,803 Cliffs of Insanity W writer1 Member
writer1 Member W Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 2,803 Cliffs of Insanity	I just found her post on TOW. That entire site makes me want to Seriously, I almost lost my breakfast while I was reading that. There was a time I was pretty far gone during my A, but even at my lowest I cannot imagine buying into the load of crap they promote on that site. I need a shower and some Pepto Bismol. Me: BS/FWW: 48 BS/WH: 50 DS: 30, 27, 25 DD: 28 OC: 10 BH and I are raising my OC together.

Re: Is OP always selfish? 4eva #2436161 10/19/10 11:58 AM
Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 11,539 la la land aka land of fruits ... F faithful follower Member
faithful follower Member F Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 11,539 la la land aka land of fruits ...	Originally Posted by 4eva Things sure change quickly in your life. OW hat firmly back in place again huh? Well...actually...I suppose it was never removed. Just covered up momentarily. Darlin'...there's not a blessed thing "Stable"(atlast) about you. I will certainly pray for this child in your care...seems she never had a chance in this life. THAT'S the biggest shame in all of this. The kids brought into these situations who get skewed values & lessons in morality. Exactly why this society is on this huge down-slide & will continue unless people wake up & get HELP for their afflictions. I'm so SICK of this fickle a$$ society...it's SICKENING. But THIS is CRAZY!: http://gloryb.com/forum/ubb/ultimatebb.php?ubb=get_topic;f=8;t=035757 4eva, you are a rock star! Faith me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49 DS 30 DD 21 DS 15 OCDS 8

Re: Is OP always selfish? faithful follower #2436225 10/19/10 01:23 PM
Joined: Sep 2008 Posts: 9,537 Likes: 9 S SugarCane Member
SugarCane Member S Joined: Sep 2008 Posts: 9,537 Likes: 9	Originally Posted by faithful follower [4eva, you are a rock star! She is! 4eva, we have a lot to thank you for. BW Married 1989 His PA 2003-2006 2 kids.

Re: Is OP always selfish? stillhere8126 #2436362 10/19/10 06:32 PM
Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 48 4 4eva Member
4eva Member 4 Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 48	Originally Posted by stillhere8126 I guess its time for a name change for stableatlast.... Ahhh...you missed it...she HAS changed it. Now it's: "itried" I guess she came here last night or this morning, after I posted, and saw she was busted . Originally Posted by writer1 I just found her post on TOW. That entire site makes me want to Seriously, I almost lost my breakfast while I was reading that. There was a time I was pretty far gone during my A, but even at my lowest I cannot imagine buying into the load of crap they promote on that site. I need a shower and some Pepto Bismol. Yeah, reading that garbage tends to have that effect. It is shocking, the state of mind these people convince themselves to remain in. Utterly shocking. Originally Posted by faithful follower 4eva, you are a rock star! Naw Faithy...you're the leader of MY band Originally Posted by SugarCane She is! 4eva, we have a lot to thank you for. Sugar Cane, you all have NOTHING to thank me for. I read & learn so much from you all that I could never repay it. I just happened to be up on this thread & got lucky just wandering over there when I did. I don't usually even go there...guess I was up for some sick entertainment (yeah...I was bored). I actually couldn't believe a (so-called) XOW-now a wife to another man-raising her XMM's child from his marriage-who (recently) OPENLY speaks about being a member "over there"-YET-"have more in common here on MB as I am in a GREAT M"-would contradict herself so quickly . This chick has some SERIOUS issues she's drowning in. And SOMEBODY needs to get that child away from her or she'll be as screwy as "itried" . THAT situation is NOT GOOD. 4eva BW-47 WH-46 Married 21 yrs. D-19 S-15 OC-14/born 9/99 NC Dday #1 10/30/04 Dday #2 7/2/12 Skank ho #2 (40ish, childless, single & desperate; the world is becoming over-run with them...just like cheaters)

Re: Is OP always selfish? 4eva #2436364 10/19/10 06:34 PM
Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 48 4 4eva Member
4eva Member 4 Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 48	And this thread topic is pretty laughable. I mean...if ya gotta ask...ya pretty much got your answer. Last edited by 4eva; 10/19/10 06:35 PM. 4eva BW-47 WH-46 Married 21 yrs. D-19 S-15 OC-14/born 9/99 NC Dday #1 10/30/04 Dday #2 7/2/12 Skank ho #2 (40ish, childless, single & desperate; the world is becoming over-run with them...just like cheaters)

Re: Is OP always selfish? 4eva #2436365 10/19/10 06:41 PM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 2,803 Cliffs of Insanity W writer1 Member
writer1 Member W Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 2,803 Cliffs of Insanity	She tried what? To be a decent human being? Looks like she failed. Hey, that would be a much better screen name for her here. How about it itried? Want to change that to ifailed? Me: BS/FWW: 48 BS/WH: 50 DS: 30, 27, 25 DD: 28 OC: 10 BH and I are raising my OC together.

Re: Is OP always selfish? 4eva #2436367 10/19/10 06:44 PM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 2,803 Cliffs of Insanity W writer1 Member
writer1 Member W Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 2,803 Cliffs of Insanity	Originally Posted by 4eva And this thread topic is pretty laughable. I mean...if ya gotta ask...ya pretty much got your answer. I think the answer to the original question is an undebateable YES! Me: BS/FWW: 48 BS/WH: 50 DS: 30, 27, 25 DD: 28 OC: 10 BH and I are raising my OC together.

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