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I already notified the OM's BW, but I never received a reply.
Then, within 24 hours, her profile was gone.
She may already know.....
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I already notified the OM's BW, but I never received a reply.
Then, within 24 hours, her profile was gone.
She may already know..... You need to verify this. Have you investigated to find a number on her?
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I looked for her number, but I could find nothing. She moved in with the OM last year, and so I guess that she only has a cell phone, which would make it much harder to find her number.
Exposure update: OK, I just updated my profile photo.
I edited the Exposure letter so that it now includes all REAL names and numbers.....
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Just a quick question, if I get blocked by him, I should just set up another account, right? (and upload the photo)
Having the finger on the button, but not quite getting the never to do it just yet....
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Just a quick question, if I get blocked by him, I should just set up another account, right? (and upload the photo)
Having the finger on the button, but not quite getting the never to do it just yet.... It doesn't matter if he blocks you. You need to send out PM's to the people on your selected list. Launch the nuke!! just do it. For cripes sake, he didn't have a hard time finding the nerve to have an affair with a married woman. Why wouldn't you have the nerve TO DO THE RIGHT THING?? Quit acting like you are doing something wrong. You have done nothing wrong and are not obliged to hide this filthy rat's dirty secret. He is the one who did something wrong.
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Just a quick question, if I get blocked by him, I should just set up another account, right? (and upload the photo)
Having the finger on the button, but not quite getting the never to do it just yet.... Not sure what you're asking. If you already have his friends' contact info C&P'd it doesn't matter if he blocks you or not. Or are you asking something altogether different?
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I looked for her number, but I could find nothing. She moved in with the OM last year, and so I guess that she only has a cell phone, which would make it much harder to find her number.
Exposure update: OK, I just updated my profile photo.
I edited the Exposure letter so that it now includes all REAL names and numbers..... Do you see any relatives on loser boys facebook that could be a relative to his BW? Even if he blocks you can still send the meassages to the people on his friends list. You made a copy so you have the names, correct? Give a minute between messages so Facebook doesn't stop you for flooding. Hit the botton and expose ALREADY!!
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f you already have his friends' contact info C&P'd it doesn't matter if he blocks you or not. Or are you asking something altogether different? I guess it just means that you have to search for his friends first before sending (an extra step), right?
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I finally got the nerve!! Thanks!
FB Exposure in Progress!!
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f you already have his friends' contact info C&P'd it doesn't matter if he blocks you or not. Or are you asking something altogether different? I guess it just means that you have to search for his friends first before sending (an extra step), right? Not an extra step, but the first step to FB exposure because you can bet your last dollar he'll shut it down the minute he realizes what you are up to.
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I finally got the nerve!! Thanks!
FB Exposure in Progress!! Way to go!!  All you do is copy and paste his contacts into a WORD doc and save. Then go to the list, hold down the "ctrl" button and click on the link. It will take you right to their fb page. That way, even if he shuts down his page, you can continue to send out PMs without interruption.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I finally got the nerve!! Thanks!
FB Exposure in Progress!! You will get supporting messages and you will get criticism. Just expect both. If someone chastises you, simply thank them for their opinion or ignore them. Most of all, do not let it bother you. You are not doing this to get approval, but to expose that rat fink OM and get word to his wife and his parents. You don't need the approval of crapwits anyway. So don't let any derogatory opinions interfere with your plan, ok?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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All you do is copy and paste his contacts into a WORD doc and save. Then go to the list, hold down the "ctrl" button and click on the link. It will take you right to their fb page. Thanks. Got it. The first time I did it, I got only text, but I got the links this time. Now about 35% done. 
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All you do is copy and paste his contacts into a WORD doc and save. Then go to the list, hold down the "ctrl" button and click on the link. It will take you right to their fb page. Thanks. Got it. The first time I did it, I got only text, but I got the links this time. Now about 35% done. 
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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All you do is copy and paste his contacts into a WORD doc and save. Then go to the list, hold down the "ctrl" button and click on the link. It will take you right to their fb page. Thanks. Got it. The first time I did it, I got only text, but I got the links this time. Now about 35% done. Agree! Nicely done JD!
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Exposure is done ... around 600 people. I did 4 to 5 people in a quick spurt, and then waited 1 to 2 minutes before trying again. That was the only way to get the messages out to that number of people.
I will share the results here for everyone's future reference!
Thanks again!!
And I just got BLOCKED! DONE!!!!
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Exposure is done ... around 600 people. I did 4 to 5 people in a quick spurt, and then waited 1 to 2 minutes before trying again. That was the only way to get the messages out to that number of people.
I will share the results here for everyone's future reference!
Thanks again!!
And I just got BLOCKED! DONE!!!! Good job JD. Now just sit back and be the rockstar husband in Plan A to your WW and let exposure do it's work. To the people who will tell you negative comments don't let it get to you, because there will be those.
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
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Exposure is done ... around 600 people. I did 4 to 5 people in a quick spurt, and then waited 1 to 2 minutes before trying again. That was the only way to get the messages out to that number of people.
I will share the results here for everyone's future reference!
Thanks again!!
And I just got BLOCKED! DONE!!!! LMAO!!! 600?????? I almost asked you earlier how many you intended to expose to, but for some reason didn't. A warrior is born! I completely rescind my comments about growing a pair. You've grown a pair that Godzilla would be proud to own!
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Exposure is done ... around 600 people. I did 4 to 5 people in a quick spurt, and then waited 1 to 2 minutes before trying again. That was the only way to get the messages out to that number of people.
I will share the results here for everyone's future reference!
Thanks again!!
And I just got BLOCKED! DONE!!!! Well done, JD! Well done!
D-Day 2-10-2009
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Congratulations!
Seriously, congratulations!
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
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