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Originally Posted by MelodyLane
I guess I need to clarify and say that you can do very affectionate things that lead up to making love without going that far. I guess I would call it affection on steroids. And that is as far as I am going! rotflmao I assure you that I behave like a lady in public!

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Originally Posted by BrainHurts
Originally Posted by MelodyLane
I guess I need to clarify and say that you can do very affectionate things that lead up to making love without going that far. I guess I would call it affection on steroids. And that is as far as I am going! rotflmao I assure you that I behave like a lady in public!

Oh we have no doubt you behave like a lady. smile

I want to know her husband's opinions about how a lady should behave.


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Originally Posted by markos
Originally Posted by BrainHurts
Originally Posted by MelodyLane
I guess I need to clarify and say that you can do very affectionate things that lead up to making love without going that far. I guess I would call it affection on steroids. And that is as far as I am going! rotflmao I assure you that I behave like a lady in public!

Oh we have no doubt you behave like a lady. smile

I want to know her husband's opinions about how a lady should behave.

No doubt. laugh


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You're all going to laugh at this suggestion, but sometimes Prisca and I enjoy listening to Marriage Builders Radio for UA. I think it only works because we talk, talk, TALK about it, sometimes totally missing what's being said on the show because it sparks our own conversation.

I don't think that would work for everyone. But it is free!


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Originally Posted by markos
Originally Posted by BrainHurts
Originally Posted by MelodyLane
I guess I need to clarify and say that you can do very affectionate things that lead up to making love without going that far. I guess I would call it affection on steroids. And that is as far as I am going! rotflmao I assure you that I behave like a lady in public!

Oh we have no doubt you behave like a lady. smile

I want to know her husband's opinions about how a lady should behave.

Don't you dare ask him! faint


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Originally Posted by markos
You're all going to laugh at this suggestion, but sometimes Prisca and I enjoy listening to Marriage Builders Radio for UA. I think it only works because we talk, talk, TALK about it, sometimes totally missing what's being said on the show because it sparks our own conversation.

I don't think that would work for everyone. But it is free!

Why laugh? This is an excellent idea!


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Okay, I want to know who passed Prisca the suggestion for our date last Friday. She leaned her back against my chest at one point, and I held her for awhile until I was poked by something sharp. That was odd. I felt around for a minute, and finally found a sharp pin inside her dress, poking me! I tried to help her get it out, and only succeeded in stabbing my finger several times.

It turns out Prisca had a safety pin in her bra to mend a part that had become detached.

What is this? Some kind of new defense mechanism???

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Originally Posted by markos
Okay, I want to know who passed Prisca the suggestion for our date last Friday. She leaned her back against my chest at one point, and I held her for awhile until I was poked by something sharp. That was odd. I felt around for a minute, and finally found a sharp pin inside her dress, poking me! I tried to help her get it out, and only succeeded in stabbing my finger several times.

It turns out Prisca had a safety pin in her bra to mend a part that had become detached.

What is this? Some kind of new defense mechanism???

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Haha that thrifty Prisca. smile


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Originally Posted by markos
Note to the ladies: if you want to tell your husband "hands off," just say it straight out. Stabbing him repeatedly during UA time is probably not a love bank deposit! smile

Dang, that girl is one smart cookie!! I am going to put a pin in my brassiere! My DH was rubbing my back in the Walmart line and he grabbed my bra hook and I turned my head and said Don't you dare, Mister! I will call the manager!! twoxfour


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Originally Posted by MelodyLane
Originally Posted by markos
Note to the ladies: if you want to tell your husband "hands off," just say it straight out. Stabbing him repeatedly during UA time is probably not a love bank deposit! smile

Dang, that girl is one smart cookie!! I am going to put a pin in my brassiere! My DH was rubbing my back in the Walmart line and he grabbed my bra hook and I turned my head and said Don't you dare, Mister! I will call the manager!! twoxfour


So Bed, Bath and Beyond is ok, but Walmart is off limits? blush


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Originally Posted by BrainHurts
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So Bed, Bath and Beyond is ok, but Walmart is off limits? blush


I don't believe so! crazy


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Originally Posted by BrainHurts
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Okay, I want to know who passed Prisca the suggestion for our date last Friday. She leaned her back against my chest at one point, and I held her for awhile until I was poked by something sharp. That was odd. I felt around for a minute, and finally found a sharp pin inside her dress, poking me! I tried to help her get it out, and only succeeded in stabbing my finger several times.

It turns out Prisca had a safety pin in her bra to mend a part that had become detached.

What is this? Some kind of new defense mechanism???

Note to the ladies: if you want to tell your husband "hands off," just say it straight out. Stabbing him repeatedly during UA time is probably not a love bank deposit! smile


Haha that thrifty Prisca. smile

Yeah, cheap recreation! For her, at least. smile


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Prisca should go into business and patent the "hands off" underwear complete with strategic pins, quickly before someone else does! She could make a fortune!


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So we're going out again tonight,

and last night I caught Prisca with a handful of five safety pins!!!


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Originally Posted by markos
So we're going out again tonight,

and last night I caught Prisca with a handful of five safety pins!!!
Better take some cushion shocked


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