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I would say ditch this friend who is telling you these things. You don't need that "advice" when you KNOW something is wrong.


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

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Againandagain,

I do feel like I need to add that my friends love this guy.

Not saying there is an issue here, but does your fiance go out of his way to make women like him, does he need the admiration and attention of other women?

Some men adapt as they get older realizing that they can no longer get women by brute force, but need to become likeable and subtle.

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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.



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Here are some clips like Your situation.

Radio Clip on Cheating during Engagement
Segment #2


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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.



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FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.



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Wait..... whaaaaaaat? He's lied to you about his involvement with the other girls in the past, treated you with disrespect, and you're still thinking of marrying this guy? o_O I wouldn't!! But if you can't get rid of him yet, take the others' advice and date him for 2 more years and do some research to see if he has anything sneaky going on on the side.


Married 1/2000.
D-Day 3/7/11. WH moved in with OW and they married in 2013.
Single mom of 4.

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