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#2720403 04/18/13 02:19 AM
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Hello all. I have reason to believe my wife has or is having an affair. She has been leaving a little early for work lately. I also looked over her pay stubs and found that she's been going into work late as well. I'm thinking that the leaving early and going in late coincide. There have been lots of other circumstantial evidence over the past few years that points to cheating. I'm trying to find the best way to catch her on a budget. She controls the money in the house and hiding some here and there is difficult. I've been thinking about putting a spy program on her Android phone, but I don't want her finding out. I have some questions:

1. My wife uses an anti virus program for her phone. I believe it's from Avast, but not positive. Would this block the spy program?

2. She uses a program called advanced juice defender to save her battery life. It shuts down apps when the phone goes into idle mode. Would this shut down the spy program as well?

3. Does the spy program cause a big drain on the battery which she would notice?

4. If I decided to remove the program, does it completely uninstall without leaving a trace?

5. Would it be better to use a vehicle tracker?

6. I'm interested most in the feature that turns the phone into a mic letting you hear everything around her. What happens if she is using the phone when you turn that feature on?

7. Is there a spy program that lets you install it on more than one phone so I can try it on my phone first?

8. Also, what is a good program to use?

Thanks all for your help. Wish it hadn't come down to this....

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One other thought. I believe she uses that chat features on the games she plays. Would these be recorded as well?

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Welcome to MB.


Notify the MODS to move your thread to SAA.


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Is there any way to delete this thread instead of moving it? I want to introduce my wife to this website, but my screen name looks a little to obvious to me and I don't want her knowing that I was planning on spying on her. Thanks

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Originally Posted By: Lost_In_34608
Is there any way to delete this thread instead of moving it? I want to introduce my wife to this website, but my screen name looks a little to obvious to me and I don't want her knowing that I was planning on spying on her. Thanks

You can change your screen name. Just go to "my stuff" and change it. Also, if you have any trouble NOTIFY the MODS and ask them.


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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.



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Thanks BrainHurts..... That worked out perfectly.

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Thanks BrainHurts..... That worked out perfectly.

You're welcome.

Now you can start your own thread in SAA (if you want).


FWW/BW (me)
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.




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