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It should still be on replay until today's show supersedes it.
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Once again on the show yesterday, the example of how MC are useless when it comes to saving marriages. Did you hear about the last email question on the show? If not could our resident MB scholar, Brainhurts, post it for CS. Thanks in advance. Will do. I have it on my list.
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Did you do what the board suggested or you still picking pieces of other plans?
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Once again on the show yesterday, the example of how MC are useless when it comes to saving marriages. Did you hear about the last email question on the show? If not could our resident MB scholar, Brainhurts, post it for CS. Thanks in advance. Will do. I have it on my list. Here it is. Radio Clip on Counselors
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Just to give an update. It's ending in divorce and there is no chance what so ever for reconciliation. We were having a nice a peaceful divorce at first via mediation and then she accused me of sexual abuse to our daughter. CPS ruled it out and noted as basically being false allegations. I got a great lawyer and I am going for full custody.
Figure I give you an update.
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For jealousy arouses a husband's fury, and he will show no mercy
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Just to give an update. It's ending in divorce and there is no chance what so ever for reconciliation. We were having a nice a peaceful divorce at first via mediation and then she accused me of sexual abuse to our daughter. CPS ruled it out and noted as basically being false allegations. I got a great lawyer and I am going for full custody.
Figure I give you an update. Sorry to hear that, does your DD know the truth from you now? Have you realized your inlaws aren't allies in your struggle? What are your plans? Are you in contact with your WW? Do you document any contact?
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I document everything. DD doesn't know the truth because STBXWW has alienated me from her. In-laws are definitely not allies.
Plan is to get full custody and avoid contact. I agreed to see my daughter Thursdays and Saturday at 3pm as long as certain people are not present.
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For jealousy arouses a husband's fury, and he will show no mercy
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Christian Samurai,
Are you following the advice of your attorney?
Am i correct in assuming you left the home?
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1. I did not leave the home
2. I am following the advice from the attorney.
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For jealousy arouses a husband's fury, and he will show no mercy
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I document everything. DD doesn't know the truth because STBXWW has alienated me from her. In-laws are definitely not allies.
Plan is to get full custody and avoid contact. I agreed to see my daughter Thursdays and Saturday at 3pm as long as certain people are not present. This is why you should of exposed to her long ago. I will also have your attorney put a clause of no overnight visits from other men when your daughter is with WW. Sex abuse increases in the case of girls who are with single moms.
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Sorry to heart that, CS. What happened? Your wife would not end her trists with other men?
Good luck with the settlement.
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