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Melody why aren't you in bed with your husband? I am up because I am working:)))
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You don't even follow your own rules:)))
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Melody why aren't you in bed with your husband? I am up because I am working:))) Because we are sitting here watching The Last Ship on DVR! 
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Oooo... You know what why would I have wasted so much time getting beat up here if I were still screwing the other man? I would avoid you right. Oh wait let me guess this is how I covering up affair by coming here????? Does this make sense to anyone????? If you don't want to follow Dr. Harley's recovery plan then at least have the courtesy to tell your husband so he can consider divorce. You've mentioned Christian principles but your recent posts seem very combative. Dr. Harley's plan is very clear, as detailed in his book. All conditions which made the affair possible must be eliminated.
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I am in my sexy PJs and he is in his cute bathrobe! 
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We are snacking on spinach artichoke dip! 
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I don't think posting all night is quality time.
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I don't think posting all night is quality time. I agree. So why aren't you home with your husband?
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I am working:)). Got to pay the bills....
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This thread went off the rails when I pointed out how dangerous your job is to your marriage. I recognize when someone is trying to change the subject. So how about addressing the issue of your job, Marie, and stop with the game playing? Oh melody stop the drama! If I was meeting this man while I was supposed to be working I wouldn't get a paycheck. He lives 1500 miles away. You love this don't you? ' Do they have planes, cars or trains in his town? See, in America, we have planes that can fly, cars that can drive to just about any place we want to go. If they do, he could travel to your town and be there within the same day. And how would your husband even know? He would have no way of knowing. And how would he know if you talked to him from work? Of course he wouldn't know. Don't you work 12 on, 12 off for 2-3 day spells? So you could easily hook up on your 12 hours off. Like I said, a cheaters dream set up. So I can see why you are fighting so hard to protect that lifestyle.
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Have you changed your email that the OM contacted you with?
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You didn't answer my points in this post either. Oooo... You know what why would I have wasted so much time getting beat up here if I were still screwing the other man? I would avoid you right. Oh wait let me guess this is how I covering up affair by coming here????? Does this make sense to anyone????? Even so, nothing you have said or done for the past 3 days would convince anyone that you are not still in touch with the OM. Just the opposite. Your behavior makes me believe you are still in contact. It is very unusual to see a wayward who is *THIS* fogged out, entitled and hostile this far out from the end of the affair. This is how a wayward acts who is still in contact.
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I cannot change the email until tommorrow when the school is open. But I will. I will have to find a new job and resign the one I have which I mentioned may take some time. So I guess I am at a standstill until that happens...
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Oh and melody you don't have to warn my husband he is off marriage builders for good. He says it just makes him agitated and he told me I should stay away too.
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Oh and melody you don't have to warn my husband he is off marriage builders for good. He says it just makes him agitated and he told me I should stay away too. Well he should be very agitated based on what I have seen here, Marie. He is in serious trouble.
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Nah we will be okay...
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You mean you will be OK? It is not your ox getting gored, after all.
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Nope incorrect!! I asked someone to explain the wisdom of cheaterville which I still think is a horrible idea. Why don't you email Dr. Harley and discuss this with him? He is always welcoming anyone who disagrees with any of his works to email him.
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