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Hi Guys,

As it comes closer to the deadline where I can file for divorce, I am getting more and more anxiety about it. I am sure that is normal, but it is making me uneasy. I don't have that much peace about filing, even though I don't feel I have a choice.


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Praying for you.

Having just gone down this road, I know it's not fun. I hated it.

But for what it's worth, I remember your call on the show and I think what Dr. Harley said about how you can't afford to be with someone who's willing to live apart from you (because of your epilepsy) is a very good argument for filing. I think you're making the choice you must make in the interest of your self and your child.


Happily remarried to wonderful woman who I found using the guidelines in "Buyers, Renters, Freeloaders"
2 baby boys, working on #3 and couldn't ask for anything more.

When my ex's affair happened: BH 28, Ex-WW:29
Married: 7 years
Together: 8 years
D-day: 10/5/2014
D filed: 1/22/2015
D Final: 6/4/2015

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Thanks ax. That is a good reminder. I also just hate living in limbo. This is not what God intended for marriage.

I pray for everyone in these boards too.


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Hi PW, I just saw this. I'm praying for you, too. I can tell by your posts that you're such a wonderful person. May God bless you and comfort you.


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I don't know what kind of music you're into, but this song has given me great comfort lately:



("He Knows" by Jeremy Camp)


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pray


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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.




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