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As it comes closer to the deadline where I can file for divorce, I am getting more and more anxiety about it. I am sure that is normal, but it is making me uneasy. I don't have that much peace about filing, even though I don't feel I have a choice.
Having just gone down this road, I know it's not fun. I hated it.
But for what it's worth, I remember your call on the show and I think what Dr. Harley said about how you can't afford to be with someone who's willing to live apart from you (because of your epilepsy) is a very good argument for filing. I think you're making the choice you must make in the interest of your self and your child.
Happily remarried to wonderful woman who I found using the guidelines in "Buyers, Renters, Freeloaders" 2 baby boys, working on #3 and couldn't ask for anything more.
When my ex's affair happened: BH 28, Ex-WW:29 Married: 7 years Together: 8 years D-day: 10/5/2014 D filed: 1/22/2015 D Final: 6/4/2015
FWW/BW (me) WH 2nd M for both Blended Family with 7 kids between us Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.