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It definitely took a lot to get here. His affair ended a while ago, but he has not made any attempt at reconciliation. I have no expectation of him ever asking for it, and have reached a point where no longer want it.
Plan B was the hardest and best choice I could have made. I intend to continue to push for it.
Me BW Married 18 years before D-day Kiddos - 15, 13, 6, 1 D-day - 10/14/14 Plan B - 11/30/14
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My situation differs greatly, but I understand how you would come to this decision and applaud you for it. I was tricked out of plan B and allowed her to come back home. I'm in plan A again until such time that I cannot function. But I will say that I am seeing improvement. Stick to your guns. Your plan to stay in plan B sounds like the best thing for you.
BH 34 (me) WS 31 / OM 44 3 children 12/7/angel Married 13y D-Day 9/21/2015
Exposed/Separated Plan A (Almost in recovery)
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