Court ordered her to pay her part for the forensics to complete. She says she has no money. Her lawyers want to relieve themselves of their duties because she is not able to pay them.
I painted two rooms in the house we rent out. Kids told her this and she then went to change the locks saying by email that she was moving there because she could not afford rents. Turns out she was not moving. She just wanted to get tenants to get the money. She is a getting too much money from the house income.
I do not believe she does not have money.
Multiple times she asks for things from me that have already been delivered to her through her lawyer. Not sure why does this?
OK. This is not fun. "Mistake". May get permanent TOP from her frivolous acts.
She moved to the floor above the ground floor instead. Kids inform me. She moved to the house that she had thrown me to and had said I should have kids because it is far from school. I moved back into the neighborhood and now she moved to the house.
I went to the house changed the locks she had changed for the ground floor (we use it for short term rentals. not her apartment) because I wanted to move to the ground floor and not pay exorbitant rent in the neighborhood I live. Kids had told me the 2 rooms had not been occupied and that only one tenant was in the 3rd room. In changing the locks I realized that one the 2 rooms had a tenant after the locksmith opened it. She had not told me that she had put a tenant. I wrote an apology not for the tenant and left my number. WW filed for TOP in the Family Court saying I broke into her apartment. She did not file it the Supreme Court where I was case is being handled. It not her apartment. She said I broke into her guest. It is a tenant. The apartments have separate entrances from the street.
We went to Family court and kids were removed from the TOP. my lawYers are trying to consolidate the case in one court. My lawyer say I am likely to get a permanent TOP even though the she got it frivolously because I went to the house. She also went to Family court because she knew the Supreme Court judge would not give it to her. Mind you she got the TOP in a frivolous way had expired in early this year.
Now: I may never be able to reveal the affair if I get a permanent OP which would last for 2 years. Revealing after 2 years may get me another OP. and maybe late for the affair.
Any advice or thoughts? How to proceed?