Allan_Tweed thanks
Got fb page.
Thanks
GWN, does this mean you found his FB page?
If so - copy his friend list to a word / excel document.
Go through it - is there anybody with the same last name? This will show you who might be relatives - also use this search -
https://www.facebook.com/search/####/relatives replace the ### with OMs FB usernumber -
Expose to his family - even his ex wife - she may be helpful -
To get her name - contact a lawyer - you may already have one - my lawyer offered to look up the info for me - but the OM is in a different province - she didn't have access.
I know that ML and others are pushing you on this - I will tell you why - using my situation.
My D-Day was last January - I found this site about a week later.
I investigated some - but did not, and don't have access to her Black Berry and work communication methods. Thus was stumped for much of it.
I new who the OM was, his address, everything but his wife's name, location nor his parents information.
So I didn't expose -
My WW moved out 3 weeks ago - the next day she contacted OM.
I went and visited OM two days later.
His son was nice enough to give me OMs STBX contact information.
I called her the next morning.
She didn't really care - in fact she seemed happy for him.
She declines to share any information about his family.
She has moved out, and moved on, he is separated and in his mind this is ok.
Now my wife is separated and it is only a matter of time before this becomes perfectly ok in her mind.
I exposed to our friends and family the same week-end, most of them no response, a couple told me I was stupid. I have two supporters out of our group of shared friends.
I exposed after she moved out - now I have her venom, and limited chances to plan A.
Expose now - or you will always regret it.