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I just turned 31 in May. Stbx H turned 33 in May.<P>Mitzi
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I am 47 and fast approaching 48 in September. Husband just turned 43. <P>Yep, 40 was when he really got into OW. I agree with Wassi, midlife crisis has a deffinate thing in all of this mess.<P>We have been married 16.5 years and together 18, July 9, 2000. My favorite anniversary, when we got together. <P>------------------<BR><B>God bless you and all of us. We are all going to make it, all of us! With God on our side we can't lose! What God has joined together let no man put asunder. <P>Samantha</B><p>[This message has been edited by A blessed Samantha (edited June 27, 2000).]
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I am 28 and my roomate(wife) is about to turn 32.
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Oh, dangit, I was doing so well... not thinking of the big 3-0 fast approaching. XH is 37. Former OW (now W *snicker*) is 24. Kinda funny how living with a horrible person can age you. I look new W's age, and she looks his... she stopped smiling a while back. Looks like she got the booby-prize The X's kids from his affair are now 2 and 3 years old.<BR> Wonderchild is 6 1/2, going on 16 *already*!!<BR> Mynabird<BR> ----Time Marches On... Then You Realize It's Marching Right Across Your Face.------
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I'm 23 - H is 29.<BR>Married 3 years on July 11. All this happened in our 2nd year!! Why!!??<P>------------------<BR>"I believe... this is heaven to no one else but me - and I'll defend it long as I can be left here to linger in silence if I choose to would you try to understand?" - Sarah McLachlan
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I'll have to look again but it seems I may be at least one of th oldest if not the oldest so far. I have aged 10 years in the last 6 months but, I'm 49, W is 48, 25 years of marriage. One D 17 now pregnant living with me and dumped father/boyfriend.<P>Love and Prayers for All!!!<P>J W<P><BR>I looked again so far I am the oldest...thanks for pointing that out NoMas lol.<p>[This message has been edited by J Willy (edited June 27, 2000).]
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I'm 35, my H is 34 - working toward 10 yrs in Nov.
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Hi,<P>I'm 35.<BR>Stbx is 34 - will be 35 in Nov. (OW is 35) He is having a MLC even though he's kinda young for it.<P>We've been married 15 years. Together 17 years. Will probably be divorced within the next 6 weeks. Paperwork is through, just waiting for H to sign and then file. We used to be so happy. You just never know.<P>3 kids - boy 14, girl 11, & boy 9.<P><P>------------------<BR>Blessed be.<BR>****************<BR>Keridwen<P>Keridwen_7@yahoo.com
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My H and I are both 36. I think the OW is 34 not sure but definately acts 16.
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by inamess:<BR><B>DID YOU SEE THE 40's?<BR>Why is this happening in the 20's?</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>I thinks it's because we got married too young!<P>Yeah, those 40's are scary! I hope both my H and I can make it through that time. Maybe we already went through our "mid-life crisis" now!! <P><p>[This message has been edited by momma (edited June 27, 2000).]
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I'm 30, 31 in Sept. and H is 34, soon to be 35 in July. We'll be married 6 years in Sept. Been together 8 years total.<P>That's my story and I'm stickin' to it!
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I bet you guess this one . . .<P>I'm 35<BR>H is 37<BR>Married for 14 years
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I'm 37, husband will be 36 in August.
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No, JWilly, you now have company - you are not the oldest!<BR>I just turned 48(although I don't feel it or feel I look it-sorry, that was not meant the way it sounded - have been working out a lot lately - helps with the stress); H will soon turn 49. And, yes, mid-life crisis is fact, not fiction!!!<BR>Married almost 24 years...<BR>
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40's are scary aren't they? H is 43 and I am 40. Gives you young folks something to look forward to. Perhaps you can get it out of your system now so you won't have to suffer later?
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Ah what the heck...<P>I'm 41, stbx will be 41 in August... and yes, the 40's are hell...
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I'm 43, H is 44<P>------------------<BR>RobinAnn<P>*********<P>Miracles occur naturally as expressions of love. The real miracle is the love that inspires them. In this sense everything that comes from love is a miracle.<P>Marianne Williamson
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Hmmmmm.......<P>Our ages?<P>Dang I was hoping to find a couple or even just one person who posts here that is older than I am!!!!!!!<P>LOL!<P>I will be the BIG FIVE 0 (50) in Oct. Hubby will reach the same milestone in Dec.<P>Making us both currently 49, and holding. <P>The OW just turned 49 this past Sun. Yeah, she's younger, although not by much.<P>I'm curious, are many of the OP quite a bit younger than the betrayed? I seem to remember reading somewhere that the OP tends to be younger.<P>Maybe my situation is just that much odder than the average.<P>FC
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Fingers...since you asked...<P>I am 40 and the "OW" <I hate that term...she is a human being...a wonderful woman...who shares a common weakness as me> Anyway, she is 31.<P>Age was never an issue here with me. Wasn't out looking for a "younger babe". She just happens to be a few years younger.<P>I think a common trait in men going through the Midlife thing is trying to hold on to their youth....or recapture it. This was never the case for me.<BR>
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Hey Fingers Crossed,<P>The OW in my situation is 43, my H & I are 45. So I don't consider her THAT much younger.<P>The classic MLC I've heard about is where the 40 yo WS trades their S in for two 20 year olds. I think that was supposed to be funny. Sorry.<P>Jo
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