Girls!
I just found out that my H's OW is a memeber of the Board of Directors of a bank. I found this info ont he Internet. It is not a big bank, its capital is about $1500000. I don't know much about it but it seems to me that it is a small bank. So she must be relatively rich and is not after his money. Also it means that she is a clever and mature person. I don't know yet if it good or bad news. Probably it is bad!

If she is clever and mature, why is she messing around with a married man? But at least she is not after his money - that will leave more for you.

How did your daughter do on her mid-terms, or has she taken them yet? My boss graduated from her school and he is very very smart.

Thank you for asking, believer.
My daughter is in the middle of her mid-terms. One has to be smart to be in that school!

kamara-
Are you getting out and doing anything? You need to do that you know.

I've been keeping busy and things are going well. I saw H last Monday and that was kind of a downer. But now I'm back on Plan B (again) and doing fairly well.

yes, i do something. I went out to belly dancing tonight. I exercise from time to time. Bu there is not much for me to do unfortunately! And i am pretty lonely here. I do have friends, but they work hard and have very little time for me. Going out alone is not fun!

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Girls:
I have just received a message from my husband. He had received a request for information from his company's headquarters. He forwarded it to me asking me to send them the information (because I have it and he doesn't) and cc it to him. He didn't even ask me about my health! He doesn't give a damn about me or my health. I am just shocked. If nothing else it is impolite! People I harly know pray for me and ask me how I am. But my husband completely ignores me. Is he sane?

Kamara -

Well, no, I don't think he is sane. I am sorry he is being so mean, and downright rude to you! He is being a horse's [censored], and making a fool of himself. A scoundrel even!

You just take care of you, and let him deal with his guilt and shame. Because I believe that is what drives their cookey behavior.

You are in my prayers. And I want to know how you are feeling. How is your health? What's going on with you?

HUGS! Amy

HUGS AND KISSES FROM BRUSSEL~

Remain professional, at the end you'll need your dignity. You are on plan B...sorta...

It's no contact.. do not show him your pain like that. He will think he is control. I know its hard, just act like he no longer have any responsibility towards you. Please do that. Live for yourself, and your daughter, and I know your mom is supporting you. We're here also. Don't worry about him, he isn't much help right now. He maybe in some time, but you see.....he can't even make a choice right now. I am just telling you the truth. I will not sugar-coat anything because I beleive its lying. I want to tell you right now from the state of your husband, he isn't ready for reconciliation or coming home to you. He may never come back and stay with the OW, but know these things never last long. The excitement will be over soon. I want you to be a strong woman and take matters into your own hands. You're working aren't you? GOOD.. you work, you take care of you, and I know its hard.. "IGNORE HIM"

LOVE YOU <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

kamara -
I missed your call last night. I went out to the casino gambling all my money away. It was so fun. Really I just stay on the penny machines so I only lost $15.00. I had fun fun fun. There was live entertainment and a great buffet.

Hope you will listen to Harudah and put this guy on the back burner for awhile. He is no help at all right now.

Kamara,

R U up for joining us tonight? Dinner and a comedy club. Come on..... You will hear some crazy stories over dinner and I promise not to get on stage and talk about PBR. LOL!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

L.

kamara -
Please go. I want a report on everything that happens. After you come down here, I will fly up there for the next one.

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Please go. I want a report on everything that happens. After you come down here, I will fly up there for the next one. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">YIPEE!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

What's up girl? Please let me know what it going on with you. I hope that you are okay.

believer:
Nothing's up. I am sometimes very bad sometimes just bad but other than that there are no changes!
How are you?

kamara -

I'm doing fine. I'm very busy at work and the days fly by.

Did your daughter get through her mid-terms? I read here about someone else's daughter who found out her dad was cheating, and was having a hard time concentrating on her mid-terms. I think you did right by not telling her now.

It is sad how many people are hurt by two selfish people's choices.

kamara-

Please go to PlanA/PlanB board and read ChristyV's post. It is great.

kamara -

Where are you? Please let us know what is going on.

Nothing is going on. Just nothing! We have been in NC for a week now. I have a feeling that my husband forgot that I exist!

kamara-
How about you? Are you doing anything for yourself. Please don't sit around and wait for him. He will be in the fog for awhile yet.

yes, I am doing soemthing for myself and my family. But I am very sad!