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I don't know what her EN's are though I have to guess. She has been anti-me again this past week, very annoyed with me, very angry at me, would prefer if I was not around at times. It's totally weird, totally tiring and very hard when you love the person.
I'm wondering just how long this Plan A can realistically keep going under these conditions with no give or support from her. I fear I am becoming co-dependent, I don't seem now to have a life outside of her woes.
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Ben,
Get conseling w/ MB. Steve might be able to better access your situations. About EN ... yes, you have to guess ... remember what make your WW happy before D-Day and after D-day.
About co-dependent ... don't worry. Get really busy and pack your schedule w/ activities that you always want to do. Waiting is a very hard activity you need some distractions.
-RH-
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Thanks RH, have my MC arranged for Friday. I won't be around much now until Tuesday as I'm keeping very busy at both work and at home.
Lawyer was pretty good, made me feel comfortable about my situation and finances if it gets bad.
WW has been calling non-stop, I've left the phone on voicemail for the most part. Don't have the nerve to talk right now.
Ben.
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