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Jim
I am so glad that you are there for your kids....they will thank you for it someday. I can't believe that your XW thinks that this nudist colony is okay for kids. What a nut!!??? I bet if the shoe was on the other foot....(do they where shoes in a nudist colony? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> ) she would be flipping out!!!
Stay strong for your kids....I really hope this doesn't end up being a big fight. Do you think that maybe she might want you to do this? Are the kids getting in the way of her relationship a little????
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Thank you for all your encouragement.
It is very clear that my stepson's presence is no longer wanted... ...he hated being in their condo... when they were walking around him... in their lifestyle... ...and after it wore on him... ...I'm sure his disgust surfaced!
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I've been told by not just my parents... ...but her mom and her whole family... ...that she obviously feels that the kids are holding back her (new found) lifestyle!
My stepson does say she is upset about losing some aspect of the visitation (with the younger two)... ...but they could be crockadile tears...
...they seemed to have those kinds of tears 3 years ago... when she moved out of the house and went across state lines to live with OM... ...and let my kids stay with me.... ...after feigning a custody battle.
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One other point... ...as I was searching the web... ...I found 2 pron sites (very clearly porn sites) adverstising this nudist camp. That may be a common thing... I don't know... ...and it may not be welcomed by the 'camp'... BUT... the mear fact that the camp is being adverstised there... ...has put a clear 'signal' in my mind.... ...that 'supervised' visitations... ARE A MUST!
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Jim! Great news !!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Something RMA said about your x living a moral life before and wasn't happy and now is, is the same thing my minister friend said about my x.
My x claimed to be a born again Christian and went from that to running off and living with a married man and exposing the kids to all that, and basically just going 180 degrees the other way from where she had been.
Pahakissa2, Did you turn those disks into the police? Not so much to punish your x, but to protect those kids. It may not be the camp itself that is taking the pictures, it may be a sicko who is. Anytime there is nudity, someone will be around with a camera and pictures to sell and someone to buy them.
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Jim,
Has anything else been uncovered recently? Curious if you have an update...
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