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I know pep, I was just stateing that it's not right or fair to have to do any of this as a result of two selfesh people. And I think this type of situations should be looked at when and if you choose C. BS/WS will have to talk to OW about the child and raising this child in a hard situation. Choose your battles and fine the reasoning behind those that you do fight. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> sunny D
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Originally posted by sunnydale:
I was just stateing that it's not right or fair to have to do any of this as a result of two selfesh people.
I totally get what you are saying.
"Fair" is most certainly a moot point. There is no "fairness" clause in life.
NOW, in the aftermath of the A .... the recovery is all about ~doing what works best for the marriage~.
Have a great day.
Pep
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Sunny you are a good woman!! Look how you have grown!!! While I disagree with having her over, I am glad that YOU and YOUR HUSBAND called the shots!! In the end that is all that matters. As for your daughter, I am glad that you are going to stay open on her feelings. Sunny, you are doing great!!! I hope other newbies come on here and search your old posts and see how far you have come. Love and Forgivness really does happen. Life goes on and happiness is right there for the taking!!! Contact or not, this did not end your life, and you are through it!! I don't think your ow can throw a thing at you that will budge your renewed love and faith. Congrats to you and yours.
Pep, you are amazing the way you are so smart with the passive-aggressive swipes the ow make on here!! I get the irony too!!
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