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Speaking from the POV of someone who was a 38D+ at max wt, pregnant and nursing and now a 34C -- that is the line between needing those ugly supportive corset-like contraptions to being able to buy a sexy Victoria Secret bra. I think I'll go shopping this week. I think you should go too and find something sexy that makes you feel good and that your H will like. You deserve it!
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Thank you shellshocked, I've been thinking of that very thing. (buying some sexy bras). I've also been thinking that if I could view myself as sexier, I would act sexier, (which is what she was good at - acting sexy) and therefore feel and be sexier to him. He's not much into lingeree (sp), but maybe I need to get something besides those cotton gowns for my sake. He'd just as soon I come to bed nude! [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img] But part of being sexy is feeling sexy.<p>I can't give him huge tits, however, I can give him attention, flirtations, affection - all real reasons he was attracted to her - besides the canteloupes.
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ok, 36DD checking in here. after 2 kids and breast feeding both...you dont want to know. i have been thinking about the lift surgery, but i found out they use implant also in this surgery. i dont want that.
and about the ugly bra thing-i have incredible bra's from fredericks. yes they seem very slutty-but they support the he// out of ya.
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Sexy is an attitude. To be sexy , you need to feel sexy. To feel sexy, you need to think and believe you are.
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<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>I guess it comes back to trying to protect myself from him ever having an A again. <hr></blockquote><p>Look back at what you wrote earlier...<p> <blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>He says even if she had been smaller the A would have probably happened anyway because he was seeking attention, not sexual fulfillment.<hr></blockquote><p>So, the answer is not to obsess about your size. The answer is to continue provide him with love and attention...how you make him feel inside...<p>[ May 20, 2002: Message edited by: kam6318 ]</p>
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