talk to him. find out what it will take for him to make a decision. you have a dd, and i am sure she loves her dadday... set up situations that require that you all interact Together.

I want to so badly ... last week though he said he felt like I was manipulating him by setting up family time and dinners alone. But then he told me later not to give up. (It seemed like he was saying "I need to just go through what I'm going through. Hang in there for a while.") I suppose I just need to anyway so that he'll see I'm not giving up.

Happily Recovered from Double Infidelity! \:\)
DD1[about to turn 7]
DD2[due at X-mas]