I don't think exposure will do any good, to be perfectly honest. The only people he would normally take advice from are friends that have stayed friends with me. Now he won't listen to them because they talk to me too. These people have encouraged him to go home early in the evening, slow down on the drinking, and to try to work things out with me. They truly care about what is best for our family, not just one or the other of us. Therefore, the only person to expose to would be him ... which still does me no good b/c he'll deny, deny, deny.