Point taken. Let's hope he chooses to remain a big part of her life (as he has been) should he not choose our M. If not, he isn't the man I thought he was. (Please keep in mind that because he travels all the time, we have a phone-call routine established. She thinks Daddy is traveling right now, so this routine should be as usual, no matter how much he hates me.) She needs to be #1 priority right now. Like I said before, maybe he just needs to go through this in order to figure everything out.