Wow. I must say that I take this pretty hard, but I understand where you are coming from. Maybe I come across as a cold-hearted B in writing, but I am really not. I have a great deal of compassion for him, and am concerned about the path he is choosing for himself right now. I have never once forgotten that I am this cause of all this. I accept that I was obviously not the woman he thought I was, which is why I am working so hard on becoming an even better woman than the one he once fell in love with. I am really not trying to be mean or judgmental. Maybe I need to re-focus my energy back to working on myself, being a good mom to DD; and let whatever happens with the M happen on its own course and time frame.

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