Have done much thought over the last few days. I'm working an excellent Plan A so far this week ... he has actually been calling a lot more and we've had all nice chats. I met with my IC today and decided to establish a couple of boundaries for myself & DD (not demands for him). I will be working hard to stick to them. I am in a better place with more clarity and less anger. Feeling much better about my plan. The one thing that keeps weighing on my mind is: Do I expose his revenge A or do I just wait to see if it fizzles out?