Good news, TFC. However, beware of a false recovery, okay? Trust, but verify. Uh...what are some other cautionary clichés? I can’t think of any off the top of my head. I’m sure you understand you can enjoy his apparent separation from OW, but you need to be careful. To me, it seems he’s skipping the normal withdrawal process and moving right to the first steps in reconciliation. It’s not impossible, just very unusual.

Some day soon, you need to start applying the recovery steps in SAA. I think an NC letter needs to be prepared and sent. If she’s upset now, the letter will help settle the matter.

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