I am so humiliated ... that is the worst part. I know he is too. I had an A, in secret (aren't they usually?). He went out and had his right out in the open for everyone to see - introducing her to people and everything. On top of that, in the midst of his A, he decided to tell everyone & their brother about mine (conveniently leaving out the fact that he was in one too at that point). He did things for her that he never did for me - even before my A, when we were "happy". I suppose that is the hardest part. I would have been less upset if he had just had sex with her ... but he didn't - he gave her time, affection, and attention he was never willing to give to me.

However, all along my instincts all along have been to save this M ... so that is what I'll try to do. The waiting sucks. But he is really trying at the M now, so I can't ask for much more than that! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

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