I hope this does not trigger anything. I guess it depends on the interaction between the two. I suspect this would be a paingful trigger so a little compassion from you might be in order.

Is there any way he can cut down the travel? I see this being the biggest issue in the M. My travel almost killed my M - it was one of the underlying causes for my WW. Not sure Marriott points and Advantage miles was ever worth it now looking back.

W: 52
Married: 32 yrs
2 Sons (29 & 23)
1 Dtr (20)
1 GDtr (2.5) precious little girl