<sigh>

This is very strange. I wonder if it's just one of those bumps in the road or a trend that will continue. I just do not care for the implications of some of the things he said. Now are the times I wish someone's mind could be read. (Still no way he'll go to counseling?)

Continuing your Plan A is the only thing to do, for as long as you have decided you will. You don't have control over his thought processes, TFC, and you aren't responsible for his recent behavior. Don't let this get you down. The past two weeks might be a false recovery or this may be just a low point he, and you both will look back on as just a minor glitch. Plan A, being courteous and atttentive to him while working on being the best spouse and partner you can be, will set up the maximum effect of Plan B.

Hang tough, TFC and stay with the program Dr. Harley has found to work, okay?