OW may be at a function we are going to tonight ... this will be my first non-family (meaning kids allowed) function in 6 months! H told me he thought she might come to try to make him jealous ... which won't work. He said it will be very uncomfortable having her there and that we needn't plan on speaking to her (like I was gonna!). I told him that I wouldn't feel comfortable leaving early if she was there, he said he understood. But he never said he'd leave with me ... which is what I would've preferred. This isn't something I thought would come up anytime soon. Any suggestions?