I am happy to report that we are in a much better place since the last time I posted. Over the last month and a half. H took a polygraph and had told the whole truth. In addition, he picked up HNHN & SAA as well as Not Just Friends. He canceled all of his Dec. out of town trips and we spent the majority of the month working on the M. We did not go back to MC - I had a bad taste about it since he lied throughout therapy with 2 therapists! So we've focused on home, family and the marriage. He is doing a great job of putting us first. I must admit to still having some hesitations, but so far so good.