Yep... she never went on... refused to when I encouraged it. I don't think she would come here now... but I saw what happened to others... and there is a whole lot about her that I didn't think... Maybe I should change my name as she is familiar with this name... it is a combination of my 2 sons names, so she has used it as well. How easy is it to change? She could probably still find my new name by reading the sich. I haven't talked about this site in a long time, she probably doesn't even remember what it's called. I'll take the chance for now and see where this leads. Like I said, I've got nothing to lose.


BH (Me) - 38
WW - 36
Married - 16 years
2 children - 10,12
DD1 - 05/30/05 - EA suspected, W wanted space
DD2 - 07/01/05 - EA/PA discovered & confronted WW
DD3 - 07/21/05 - Further contact discovered and now ended.
11/07/05 - exposed to OMW...
07/01/07 - separated to give "space". recovery was not progressing.
09/04/07 - DDAY all over... new OM.

Patience with God is Faith.
Patience with myself is Hope.
Patience with others is Love.