Unless I can think of someone better, I will talk to her. She is probably the most neutral person... she is a much stronger friend with my WW... but she has respect for me and her main interest is in her son and our boys.
When I've finished a plan B letter, I'll also post on here. Not sure when that will be... but soon.
Is there anything else... I'll check off my todo list...
- discuss with lawyer to ensure I protect myself financially and for custody. - make any necessary changes to ensure finances are in order. - create a visitation calendar... or some method that will work. - choose an intermediary. - write a Plan B letter and post it here for review. - Have a clear list of boundaries that will protect me and my sons for the future. Have an clear understanding of what and only what I will accept before reconciliation. - write another letter telling her how much I miss her and wish she was here with me...that I would die without her (Just kidding) - enjoy life. enjoy time with my sons. continue to work on me. - have unbreakable and confident faith.
Have I left out any important details?
Shaden
BH (Me) - 38 WW - 36 Married - 16 years 2 children - 10,12 DD1 - 05/30/05 - EA suspected, W wanted space DD2 - 07/01/05 - EA/PA discovered & confronted WW DD3 - 07/21/05 - Further contact discovered and now ended. 11/07/05 - exposed to OMW... 07/01/07 - separated to give "space". recovery was not progressing. 09/04/07 - DDAY all over... new OM.
Patience with God is Faith. Patience with myself is Hope. Patience with others is Love. FAITH REQUIRES ACTION!
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