Or another comparison...

Imagine that your wife ran away from home to fullfillher lifelong dream of being a deadbeat parent.

To save your child the heartbreak of abandonment you told him his mother died..no help for it....she died and wouldn't have left if she could help it.

Ten years later he runs into her on the street.

Now what?

Sooner or later the truth will out. Something will collide with his false beliefs as surely as they collided with yours.

When that happens how can he trust you who decieved him?

Always look to the future because you plant seeds every day.

Cowards die many times before their deaths; The valiant never taste of death but once ~Shakespeare