back again on that "I don't know if I can be there more than that" crap I spouted.

If I was not in this sich, but in a different one... one where my W died... I would need to be there 100% for my kids. I must look at it in that way. My W is dead right now. The kids need me 100% of the time.

BH (Me) - 38
WW - 36
Married - 16 years
2 children - 10,12
DD1 - 05/30/05 - EA suspected, W wanted space
DD2 - 07/01/05 - EA/PA discovered & confronted WW
DD3 - 07/21/05 - Further contact discovered and now ended.
11/07/05 - exposed to OMW...
07/01/07 - separated to give "space". recovery was not progressing.
09/04/07 - DDAY all over... new OM.

Patience with God is Faith.
Patience with myself is Hope.
Patience with others is Love.