Marsh,

I missed your input earlier. I would not be able to go dark without finalizing with the lawyer as I do not have any schedule for visitation setup. I could do that, but if there were problems in the law process, I might have to come out of the darkness (which might put WW further into the darkness <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> ).

Thanks for being here. I will also look up the carrot and the stick again, it's been a while since I read it.

Now I am leaving to go copy a key.

Shaden


BH (Me) - 38
WW - 36
Married - 16 years
2 children - 10,12
DD1 - 05/30/05 - EA suspected, W wanted space
DD2 - 07/01/05 - EA/PA discovered & confronted WW
DD3 - 07/21/05 - Further contact discovered and now ended.
11/07/05 - exposed to OMW...
07/01/07 - separated to give "space". recovery was not progressing.
09/04/07 - DDAY all over... new OM.

Patience with God is Faith.
Patience with myself is Hope.
Patience with others is Love.
FAITH REQUIRES ACTION!