I guess I was reacting to the infighting per se. I *am* comfortable with the situation, and posted it to share, as well as to illicit thoughts and opinions, and perhaps to hear other similar situations, or even different situations.

And you're right - most have responded in kind. I guess I just take exception to people bickering amongst themselves on "my turf" LOL! If people want to flame each other, IMO they should start their own thread to do it in or better yet, take it to email <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

I'm actually glad to hear other positive stories of people who have got past the nonsense and *can* have civil interactions with their exes, particularly when children are involved.

Another reason why I post - in my other thread I "talk to myself" quite a bit - it's good for me to journal things, and later when I go back and read them, I can better understand myself and things that were going on with me at the time. Call it a part of my personal growth and self-healing. When I do get helpful input, that helps the growth process too.


F/40, DD15 DS13 M 1989 DDay his EA May 1998. S Aug 2004. D Dec 05. I filed. 4/07 Post-D Plan A with 180, with hopes of R. 6/23/07 XH said no to R. 8/24/07 Went on a date with someone new, "B". 1/22/08 Still seeing B, life is good! Learning and growing each day. Ask me about Geocaching!