TW: Hello. I am very happy that you found this board. Please keep posting and let me know if you want to talk through email. I felt soooooo alone when I found out about my H's A (about three weeks ago) We have been together 10 years - married 7 with 2 children. His A was with a younger woman also. I have never laid eyes on her and am somewhat grateful about this because then I would be even more crazy than I am now - comparing myself to her. This is all normal but NOT healthy.

Read His Needs Her Needs, Surviving an Affair, talk with your husband and re-connect. I also felt guilty about beginning to meet his sexual needs thinking that I was rewarding his behavior however a very wise woman said I was reclaiming what was already mine.

Stay strong - read and then read some more.