Okie,

""I can't find the OM's address, or his W's phone number. I am really lost right now.""

Dude, you must suck it up and FIND the address and phone #. You must expose and stop the contact.

""She has no love for me and can't ever get it back. She's still in contact with this guy and won't quit with the contact. Won't quit her job. She says she doesn't want to run off with this guy, just wants to be left alone.""

As long as she has the contact, she is in the fog, and being in the fog, out of her mouth comes the FOGBABBLE. "I have no love for you...etc.

Don't get down and forlorn. Check out the FOGBABBLE information. It can work to counter the hateful things coming out of her mouth.

Plan A has the carrot but also the STICK. Breaking the contact (the A) currently is the big stick.

IMHO

kirk

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