So, you , are saying, that you don't care what issues they will have growing up then. That is not important enough for you to seek help and make changes in your life. Hold, you get one chance in life. You get one chance at being these kids father. There is no rewind button. God I wish there was. I wish every day that I would have done things differently when my kids were young. I wish I would have not been an enabler in my ex husbands mental illness and either sought help for him or left but I didn't have the information resources then as I do now. I didn't realize that something was wrong. You however do have the resources and support with this forum. Again this is not about your wife she has to deal with her own demons this is about you. You need to deal with yours so you can raise healthy well adjusted children.

Last edited by jillybean43; 02/24/09 02:58 PM.

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