Originally Posted by curious53
You're on anti-depressants, right?

Nope. No medications. Couldn't stay hard with Mrs. Hold last few times we had sex. Difficulty staying hard each time I masturbated since the last time with her. This is not medical. This is inside my head, just like all my other problems.

Anyway, the good news is that Mrs. Hold is making progress. We aren't getting along any better, but right now our lives are more about our own journeys than about relating to one another. So her progress is evidence that our incompatibility need not prevent either of us from achieving life goals.

When you can see it coming, duck!