Hey, I'm not having sex either, but I do intend to again, so I've got some pills stored up.

I understand that you don't want to have sex right now, but it seems that getting the pills would be a proactive of telling yourself that the current conditions are not what you want, and that you expect them to change. Also, getting the pills doesn't mean you have to take them, it is a couscious decision still. Even if you do, it doesn't make you sexually attracted to someone, your body still has to react to the stimulous. Your reaction is just...enhanced.

Honestly, your acceptance of the situation seems to be a way at getting back at your W in a way. "Look what you've done to me. The lack of sex has screwed me up to where I can't have sex anymore." Even though she doesn't want to do anything with you, showing that you don't even care about it has to hurt her feelings. I think doing something about it shows that you give a dang about her and about yourself.

Me 38
Divorced 8/09
DS 10,6
DD 4