I am sorry but you married a very difficult woman. You tried everything to get your marriage to be more functional and great. You tried all you could to stop her from spending you blind and have her willing to make love on a regular basis.

Instead, she slams you in bed, disparages you daily in front of the children and alone, spends all the money she can get her paws on, refuses to work, demands trips, dinners, beauty treatments and lunches. She will not abide by the limited spending rules you set down again and again.

She has absolutely NO respect or love for you HOLD and your important private parts know this.

She has also RUINED you SEXUALLY by her 12 years of angry disparagement and overt rejection of you in bed and put downs of you sexually. You are now sexually warped. With another loving woman you may eventually recover, maybe not.

THIS WOMAN SHOULD BE PUT IN PRISON AND TORTURED LIKE SHE TORTURES YOU GLEEFULLY EACH AND EVERY DAY.