Hold you are expecting sex from your wife thats why you are doing the drive by with your conversations with your wife,thats why you post here time again and again about sex. If you was not expecting or wanting sex it would not be a issue for you. Its kind of like someone living on welfare that wants to live in a fancy house but does not want to do anything to achieve it. A little less talk and alot more action!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!