Soolee very interesting post!! many thoughts come to my mind about Mr.and Mrs Hold just wondering if Mrs.hold has been connected all this time but withdrew into spending and from sex because thats the only way she could get any attention from Mr.Hold. She saw Mr. hold being a good parent and she tried by going over board with gifts and extra spending thinking that was her way of being a good parent to their children and Mr. Hold loves his children. After readying that post about the reunion just wondering abou Mr. Holds peception in and about life in general. Maybe some anti-dep meds might do the trick. I am on a mild one and it really does help. Hold I think there is more love in both of you than you are able to reconise!!!!!!!!!!!!!