Originally Posted by dsd
just wondering if Mrs.hold has been connected all this time but withdrew into spending and from sex because thats the only way she could get any attention from Mr.Hold.

Nope. She withdrew from sex back when I spent every waking moment outside work kissing her butt. We spent every minute of every night and weekend together. She was never connected once I slid the ring on her finger.

But that is beside the point. As many here have said, at this point the focus should be on me and my life and the problems inside my head and not on Mrs. Hold.

When you can see it coming, duck!