Hold, my husband is in a similar position. He says he's "done" with the ADs, "done" with the counselors, both individual and marriage. Yet he's still clearly miserable with life. I wish I had a quick-and-easy solution to offer!

Steve Harley is working with me to get H on the phone with him. Not sure what will be accomplished once that goal is attained, but I figure, baby steps. Anyway, Steve's opinion of H's situation--not sure if any of this applies to you--is that he's like a rudderless boat in the water. He lacks the right tools to escape his situation. Perhaps some of that applies to you as well?

In any case, getting back to an exercise program can't hurt anything and will most likely help on some level. That sounds like a great idea.

Last edited by OurHouse; 12/01/09 08:38 AM.