Originally Posted by Bubbles4U
I would like to weigh in here. I had the low libido husband. He insisted it was "just the way he was" and had nothing to do with me.

1. It took me three years to believe him
2. Another few years to work the problem out
3. We had to both LOVE each other enough to fight thru it.

I feel that if a person marries you and claims to love you, they will and should do everything, whatever is needed....to try and make you happy.

Wow, Bubbles, thank you. As I just commented on Telly's post, I really benefitted from what you wrote, even though it was directed to Hold.

"If you will stop feeding your feelings, then they will stop controlling you" -Joyce Meyer